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Sentiment Scanner + Writing AssistSM

Scan your message’s sentiment before sending it to understand how it may be received, then get rewrite suggestions using structured, proven communication methods.

Even well-intended messages can land the wrong way and turn simple updates into arguments. Sentiment Scanner + Writing Assist℠ helps you pause, check sentiment, and write messages that stay calm, clear, and child-focused.

Sentiment Scanner + Writing Assist℠

How does Sentiment Scanner + Writing Assist℠ work?

  • Check your message’s sentiment before you hit “send”
  • Identify phrasing that could trigger or escalate conflict
  • Rewrite messages using proven communication methods
  • Edit, accept, or ignore suggestions—you stay in control
  • Send messages that support communication boundaries

Tips and best practices

Quick habits to help draft and send clear, calm, child-focused messages.

  1. Use the tool for conversations about sensitive topics or recurring conflict points.
  2. Experiment with the different communication methods to find the best fit for you.
  3. Scan your messages after rewriting them to confirm that the sentiment improved.
  4. Try splitting up messages with multiple requests and points to keep them clear.
  5. Scan past messages you’ve sent to learn from your past communication patterns.
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Kimberly Nasworthy
Kimberly Nasworthy

“I started using AI about a year and a half ago to help restructure my messages, because I wanted to make sure they were as neutral and positive as possible. Now it’s all in TalkingParents. I think it’s going to help immensely in anyone’s co-parenting journey to reduce conflict.”

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Frequently asked questions

The grey rock method is a communication approach that keeps messages brief, factual, and emotionless. Focusing only on what’s necessary and avoiding details or reactions can help prevent conflict from escalating.

The yellow rock method builds on grey rock by keeping communication calm and neutral while adding polite, cooperative language. This approach can help you stay respectful and child-focused without inviting unnecessary conflict.

No, you can’t use Sentiment Scanner on your co-parent’s messages, and the same goes for them with your messages. This feature is designed to be a self-help tool to better manage your own communication.

You can always edit Writing Assist responses or switch back to your original message at any time. You can also submit feedback on whether a response was helpful or not by giving it a thumbs up or thumbs down.

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